Reflection for ‘Light up a life’ service of thanksgiving and remembrance of loved ones,
5 December 2021.
For many of us, Christmas is marked by spending time with loved ones. It is a time of celebration and joy, of parties, feasts, and family – of annual reunions and shared sacred spaces. Every family and group of friends will have their own traditions, the things that “make” it Christmas for them.
All of which also makes Christmas a time when our loss can seem the greatest, our loneliness and sadness so much more pronounced in contrast to the bright lights of the season. It is painful, because we become more aware of the empty spaces at our feast table, the absence of a certain voice, a gaping wound where our loved one once stood. Everything that was once familiar has now changed, even if (and perhaps because) we follow the same patterns and traditions.
And yet there is hope – a sure and certain hope in the promises of the one whose birth we now remember – that there is life beyond death, that grace transcends all things, that love endures forever.
Our loved ones may be absent from our tables, but they still live in our hearts.
We may no longer hear their voices, but we can still speak of them and keep their stories alive.
Our lives were richer for knowing them, and we can celebrate all that they were and continue to be in significance to us.
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